The Secret to Wearing Heels with Ease: How I Conquered Heels and You Can Too!

I’ve been a trainer for over 20 years, and if you’ve seen me, you’ve probably noticed—I’m always in heels. Whether I’m standing tall, walking miles, or dancing the night away, my heels are my trusted companions. People often ask, “How does she do it? She’s always on heels without flinching!” Well, I’m here to let you in on my little secret.

 The Reality of Finding Comfortable Heels

First, let me confess—I’m a shoe lover through and through. Friends and admirers, knowing my passion for footwear, often gift me stunning shoes. But here’s the twist: I rarely wear them. Why? Because as gorgeous as they might be, most of them are far from comfortable. They pinch, squeeze, and make every step a painful chore. I’ve had to tell my assistant to politely discourage anyone planning to gift me shoes. The truth is, I stick to a select few brands that I trust implicitly.

 The Secret Brands That Changed Everything

I’ve discovered brands that make chic, stylish, and most importantly, comfortable heels—brands that make you feel like you’re walking on clouds, not concrete. Two of my absolute go-tos are Aldo and BCBGeneration. The comfort level of these shoes is unmatched. It might sound like an exaggeration, but slipping into a pair of these heels feels like being in a room filled with feathers. I always make sure to buy directly from their stores to ensure I’m getting the real deal—nothing beats that sense of comfort and style wrapped up in one.

Why Heels Matter and How to Find the Right Fit

Heels aren’t just shoes—they’re an extension of your style and confidence. They add that extra touch of elegance and elevate any outfit. But the wrong heels can do the opposite; they can leave you limping and wishing you’d stuck to flats. Don’t give up on wearing heels just because you’ve had bad experiences. It’s not about you—it’s about finding the right brands that care about comfort just as much as style.

Give Heels Another Chance

If you’ve been discouraged by heels that hurt or pinch, don’t give up just yet. Explore brands known for their comfort and give your feet the treat they deserve. I’d love to hear about your experiences and help you rediscover the joy of wearing heels. Share your thoughts with me at tf@lionessbytf.com.

Here’s to walking tall, dancing freely, and never compromising on style or comfort!